Hubby and I have been just so stupidly busy lately that we are both feeling quite overwhelm
ed. I can tell, both of us are a bit cranky and TIRED oh so bone weary TIRED. We often find ourselves struggling to stay up past
8:00pm
We work for ourselves and recently lost a key staff member. It shook both of us around a bit and rather than re-hiring immediately, we tried to do it all ourselves. (Bad move..although saving 3 months wages has made the bottom line look healthy)
We have now hired some more help so we know it is going to get better, but just the act of doing ANYTHING at present seems to be a struggle. I have made sure we are eating well with minimum cooking fuss. Quite a few “throw the ingredients in a pot and cook it” type meals.
Luckily neither hubby or I are not prone to any severe depression or anxiety, but after the last month or so , we can certainly see how these conditions can manifest very quickly. We keep reminding ourselves that there IS an end in sight. The new staff members are coming up to speed and the workload is coming back to a manageable level. Heck, just the fact that I have time to type this post, means I am not “drowning” beneath a pile of paperwork to be completed.
We have both been fairly mindful that we have been too busy and that the need to look after ourselves is important. ( hence the in bed at 8:00 caper)
Some things I have done are: (in no particular order)
Ignored the housework to a certain degree.
Made sure we eat. At work we have been so busy there were a couple of days we forgot to eat, so I set up a reminder on my phone for coffee breaks and lunch – even if it was just a sandwich on the run.
Planned simple no- fuss dinners that required little prep and cooking. It sounds fancy, but a simple roast is just peel a couple of potatoes, slice off a chunk of pumpkin and thrown it in the oven with a piece of meat for a couple of hours.
Ordered groceries online and had them delivered to the office later in the afternoon.
Tried to stay positive and actually talk to each other. While we work in the same business, we don’t actually work together ( does that make sense?) I am busy in the office while he is busy in the factory. So we can still have a “how was your day” conversation when we get home.
Hubby has been very good at prioritising which jobs need to be done by which day, and we have not upset any of our valued clients. He is far better at To Do lists than I am. I make to do lists but not in the correct order and then I can get stressed when they don’t pan out.
Hubby and I had a great break, one that was most needed.
We have been crazy busy for the last 3 months ( with not much end in sight) so while we really could not afford (time-wise) to be away from our business, we did enjoy it, and recognised that the relaxation was more important.
As I posted earlier, we had a 50% off voucher from Groupon for 3 nights in a fully self-contained Ocean View Apartment. The apartment was huge. It was actually a 3 bedroom apartment that they had just locked off two bedrooms to be able to sell as a one bedroom apartment. The kitchen was a full size kitchen with all the crockery, cutlery, pots and pans that a family of 6 would need. We had a wonderful view looking right up Main Beach and kangaroos came and visited each afternoon. We also spotted a koala having a sleep in a nearby park.
Usually, I do try to stay in apartments with a kitchen. I find it saves us a bucket load of cash while still having a good break. Before going away I do up a rough meal plan and then look at the budget and work out how many meals we might like to eat out.
We like to have a Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner out. (Not all on the one day 🙂 ) I will then hit Google and look at restaurant and cafe menus to get a good idea of how much the local cuisine will cost. I also look at Groupon to see if there are meal deals in the area we are going. ( sadly there were none for this trip)
For this trip we took from home: Milk, Coffee,Tea, Bacon and eggs, Some bread, butter, cheese and ham from the fridge, The last of the week’s veges and a pack of beef mince (it all became a savoury mince type dish) Cheese and crackers and a couple of bottles of wine 🙂
We ate out for one breakfast, had pizza for one lunch, and had the most superb meal at a resort restaurant. We also bought a “meal” of fresh prawns and crab fresh from the trawlers to go with the wine. Overall we kept well in budget and came back recharged and ready for another few months hard work.
One of my favourite things to do with my sunshine cash is to spend it on travel.
Now, while my businesses do generate a good liveable income, we cannot just have unlimited time away. Even the richest men and women are still found in their offices more often than not. I make a point of getting away for long weekends every 2-3 months plus and extended week or two once or twice a year.
One of the best ways I have found to have these breaks, is by making good use of daily deals sites. Sites like Groupon, Living Social, Luxury Getaways provide great deals on travel destinations that we may not have otherwise considered.
For us 3 nights away works well, as we can have Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights away and have at least some time at home on Sunday afternoon before getting back to work on Monday.
I am preparing to go away next weekend. I bought a Groupon Deal quite some time ago for 3 nights at Whale Watch Ocean Resort on North Stradbroke Island at 50% off the regular price. This short break is about a 90 minute drive from home.
I have already Googled some great places to eat. We will pack the car with the bulk of our food and drinks and maybe eat out for 2 lunches and 1 dinner.
We have both been working really hard the last couple of months , so are really looking forward to this break. I can foresee quite a few liquid beverages on the balcony overlooking the ocean and watching for humpback whales as they make their migration up the Queensland coast.
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Hubby and I have been just so stupidly busy lately that we are both feeling quite overwhelm
One of my favourite things to do with my sunshine cash is to spend it on travel.
